How to Have a 3some (Even If You Don’t Feel Ready)

A step-by-step guide by Andy from Kill Your Inner Loser

How to Have a 3some (Even If You Don’t Feel Ready)

A step-by-step guide by Andy from Kill Your Inner Loser

Here’s what you’ve all been continually begging me to give you, you dirty pervs – my massive video training course + 192-page ebook bundle, teaching you how to bring 2 girls together for a ménage à trois.

A photoshoot from one of my recent 3somes.

Fuck yes.

Me with my main girl, Immy.

But who am I, and what’s all this talk about 3somes? I’m Andy – author of KillYourInnerLoser.com and sex/dating coach. I run a successful YouTube channel, podcast, blog and coaching business, and I’m a total sucker for 3somes, BDSM and dirty, filthy, kinky sex.

But what really matters is I’m the guy who’s going to get you the holy grail: as many 3somes as you can possibly handle.

As of 2022, I’ve had 3somes with over 50 different girls (and counting), and multiple 4somes (MFFF). The photos on this page were taken during some of my 3somes. Until you’ve had a 3some, you have no fucking idea how insanely hot they are. Whatever you’ve seen in porn, whatever image you have in your mind of what it’ll be like: the reality is 100x hotter than anything you ever could have imagined. Even after all the 3somes I’ve had, it never gets old; it’s literally bliss.

Watching 2 girls go to town on one another is such a headfuck in the best possible way – so hot it’ll blow your mind. You’ll be so overwhelmed by how new it all is that you’ll spend the entire time going, “This can’t be real”. When you finally make it happen, when you finally have two girls in bed with you, one riding your face, her pussy dripping all over your mouth while the other girl bounces up and down on your hard cock, the two of them making out with each other – you’ll understand why 3somes are held up as one of the pinnacles of sexual achievement. Threesomes are fucking amazing.

A few samples from my 3somes.

So let’s get you your first 3some (and many more after that!) The training covers absolutely everything to do with having a 3some, from:

  • Mindset (destroying the belief that you “aren’t ready” for a 3some yet)
  • How to find the girls who are up for 3somes
  • Setting up your Tinder/Hinge to maximise efficiency and cut down on time-wasting
  • What to do on dates, how to get the girls back to your place
  • How to initiate the 3some
  • Exactly what to do during the 3some itself (how to make it hot as hell)
  • How to make both girls orgasm; how to blow their minds so they’ll come back for more
  • How to make the girls desperate to have more 3somes with you (retention)
  • Eliminating jealousy between the girls, so everyone involved has a good time
  • How you can get girls to bring you more girls themselves, without any input from you!
American Beauty x 2

The last half of the training is the best part: I go into detail about how you can get a girl to bring in more girls for 3somes (yep, free sex for you!) like I’ve done with my girlfriend Immy. She and I wrote that part of the training together (she contributed a tonne of content, so you can hear what a 3some is like from a woman’s point of view), and it’s aimed at WOMEN – as in, we talk directly to your girl, we literally tell her every single step she needs to take, so she can do it all herself, without you having to do a damn thing.

So all YOU need to do is hand her the guide and say “Go bring me free 3somes!”

The included video course goes even further than the ebook, answering all the questions I’ve ever received from coaching clients, friends and my audience about 3somes – so you’ll be completely ready to go out there and make 3somes a regular part of your life.

There’s even plenty of photos from my actual 3somes, included throughout the book to show you what you’re in for 😉

“I want to thank you and Immy again. This is an invaluable resource for anyone who’s looking to get into 3somes. Seriously, this course is pure gold!”

“But Andy! I’m not ready to have a 3some yet – I’m not good enough yet!”

Who wouldn’t want to bang these 2 cuties?

Every red-blooded male on the planet has thought about having a 3some (and a tonne of girls have too), but very few ever actually make it happen. They just leave it as a fantasy, convinced it’s out of the realm of possibilities. Why? Because they let bullshit beliefs like “I’m not ready!” hold them back.

I was no better – I fantasised about 3somes all the damn time, for most of my life. 3some/lesbian videos were my go-to porn when I wanted to get off. I spent so much of my life sitting around thinking, “My life would be complete if I ever had a 3some”… but I never in a billion years thought it could ever happen. I couldn’t even fathom the thought of me – little old Andy – having an actual 3some with two real, live, actual human females.

I went 30 years of my life without having one – because I wasn’t actually trying to have one. I wanted it, but I didn’t do anything to bring my fantasies into reality. You know what happened when I actually decided to make it happen? Within 2 months of actually trying, I had my first 3some. And I’ve had countless more since.

I’m giving you the keys to the kingdom here; literally telling you step-by-step what you need to do to have your first 3some, and holding your hand the entire way. I’d have given anything for a guide like this all those years I wanted a 3some; it would have saved me literally years.

I really poured my heart and soul into this thing – I really, really, really want you to have a 3some and not miss out like I did for all that time. They’re a genuinely life-changing experience; I want you to be able to enjoy them as much as I do. Please don’t let limiting beliefs like “I don’t feel ready!” hold you back. I wasn’t even remotely “ready” to have a 3some, but you know what? I finally decided to give it a go and tried anyway, and look how amazing my sex life is now.

Click the button below and let’s get you your first 3some too.


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This training course will change your life; it already has for so many guys who’ve used it. Join them – and me – and let’s get that dick of yours wet.

After all, if I can do it, you sure as hell can too.

-Andy